I’m visiting my mom and had a horrible migraine for 2 days. I woke up feeling better today and she’s making plans to go hiking or sightseeing and to dinner theater tonight.

She’s never had a migraine and doesn’t understand that yes the migraine is over, but I still feel like shit

It’s hard to put it into a question, but here’s an example:

You and your SO are invited to an event. They don’t really want to go, so they use the excuse “Oh my partner has a migraine, can’t go, sorry!” to get out of going. Or if you’re at a party and kinda want to skip out early and someone says “I have to go soon, OP has a migraine so we need to take her home.”

How do you feel about it? I’ll admit I always overthink everything, but the last time this happened, I felt kind of…annoyed? Frustrated?

It just makes me feel guilty and makes me wonder if others are like “Ah, here we go again, making people miss out on stuff because of her migraines…” I can’t place my finger on why it bothers me so much!

Does anyone else relate, or am I overthinking it?