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Yep! Happened to me early 30s, also a woman

This poster is gorgeous

Okay thanks good to know

Need a friend by El Vy!! I’d go nuts!

“Sift through the slush and the ash and the dust

For whatever stands out for whatever reason

If it's a laugh or a rush or a remembered feeling

You don't know what it means, but you don't wanna leave it

Put it in a plastic bag and put it in a pocket

Hang it on a hanger and put it in a closet

You'll know where it is whenever you need it I make a good argument, admit it”

Best on the album right there in my opinion but there’s sooo many amazing great ones

At first, but he came around to it after a month! Now we’re back together and he’s letting me date other women

1000000% after re filters in dating app. I don’t want 24 year old men lol but fine with younger women (in my early 30s, and in fact would prefer than in the event I start a family)

I think you can be with whoever you want! It’s surprising you notice an age difference with even a month younger in my opinion, but you do you! I’m F in my early 30s and personally don’t mind 5 years younger, 8 or so older. I personally wouldn’t go as young as 21, as I just feel it’s a different stage of life, but if you find women who do, I see no issue with it

Really masculine men and really feminine women.

I actually was straight and became bi. For me it wasn’t realizing I was bi/missing signals/in denial

Thank you!! This is super helpful! Nope, he won’t need to approve of them, or have any interaction with them. We have our own places, which helps with this.

Thanks, this is super, super helpful! I’d never heard of Feeld.

As far as I know I’m heteroromantic bisexual, so I am not sure I can develop feelings for a woman, but I do want to explore this.

We don’t live together(at this point in time; I realize my original post was confusing around that; in the future we will I’m sure), which makes this (somewhat) logistically easier. Though you raise many great points!

He doesn’t want to hear details of my dates/women sex life lol. And he isn’t up for any involvement in it. Thanks again

I never did when I was straight and neither do my straight friends.

I started to recently and it went really well.

Oh no, I only have a clear phone case lol

Oh no! That’s surprising given how many there are on there like that

What about just tinder? That’s where I look

Oh wow, yeah a year is a while! Are you trying via an app? Fwiw as a unicorn I look for couples that are tested and neg. Maybe “advertise” that in your bio, if you are lol

You’ll likely find someone if you keep trying long enough, depending on your area. I am a unicorn so have heard from the other side haha. Good luck!!

You need new friends 😂 it’s near musical perfection

I can relate to this. I’m very straight passing and don’t feel like I fit in queer spaces very well. Even on dating apps I swipe to like 1 in 100 women. I like really feminine looking women with no piercings, hair coloring, tattoos, etc

Ohh I really like that comparison! The closest I had thought of was send for me, as an entire song hah

A threesome. The threesome overall was fun, putting on a show, living out my top fantasy, but I was incredibly indifferent to the same sex experience part. Wasn’t attracted. Wasn’t repulsed. It just, happened

Love that part too - didn’t fit in the screenshot