Is it possible to realize you're bi after many years of being straight?
Yep! Happened to me early 30s, also a woman
No chance anyone is trying to sell this poster (in any color)?
This poster is gorgeous
Help! Baby bi here & went on a date last night with a woman
Okay thanks good to know
Help! Baby bi here & went on a date last night with a woman
What song would you love to hear the National cover?
Need a friend by El Vy!! I’d go nuts!
What are your favorite lyrics from the newest album?
“Sift through the slush and the ash and the dust
For whatever stands out for whatever reason
If it's a laugh or a rush or a remembered feeling
You don't know what it means, but you don't wanna leave it
Put it in a plastic bag and put it in a pocket
Hang it on a hanger and put it in a closet
You'll know where it is whenever you need it I make a good argument, admit it”
Best on the album right there in my opinion but there’s sooo many amazing great ones
Bi Women: have you ever been rejected by your (male) date after coming out as bi?
At first, but he came around to it after a month! Now we’re back together and he’s letting me date other women
Do you prefer different age ranges for different genders?
1000000% after re filters in dating app. I don’t want 24 year old men lol but fine with younger women (in my early 30s, and in fact would prefer than in the event I start a family)
Am I Being A Hypocrite?
I think you can be with whoever you want! It’s surprising you notice an age difference with even a month younger in my opinion, but you do you! I’m F in my early 30s and personally don’t mind 5 years younger, 8 or so older. I personally wouldn’t go as young as 21, as I just feel it’s a different stage of life, but if you find women who do, I see no issue with it
Question?
Really masculine men and really feminine women.
Did you think you were straight and realized you were bi, or did you think you were gay and realized you were bi or straight?
I actually was straight and became bi. For me it wasn’t realizing I was bi/missing signals/in denial
Appropriate way to represent this on dating apps?
Thank you!! This is super helpful! Nope, he won’t need to approve of them, or have any interaction with them. We have our own places, which helps with this.
Appropriate way to represent this on dating apps?
Thanks, this is super, super helpful! I’d never heard of Feeld.
As far as I know I’m heteroromantic bisexual, so I am not sure I can develop feelings for a woman, but I do want to explore this.
We don’t live together(at this point in time; I realize my original post was confusing around that; in the future we will I’m sure), which makes this (somewhat) logistically easier. Though you raise many great points!
He doesn’t want to hear details of my dates/women sex life lol. And he isn’t up for any involvement in it. Thanks again
Do non-bisexuals really change genders of people in love songs?
I never did when I was straight and neither do my straight friends.
Bisexual women: Do you feel hesitant to tell men that you’re bi/pan?
I started to recently and it went really well.
What are some things you consider to be bisexual culture?
Oh no, I only have a clear phone case lol
Sex with a woman
r/bisexualadultsOh no! That’s surprising given how many there are on there like that
Sex with a woman
r/bisexualadultsWhat about just tinder? That’s where I look
Sex with a woman
r/bisexualadultsOh wow, yeah a year is a while! Are you trying via an app? Fwiw as a unicorn I look for couples that are tested and neg. Maybe “advertise” that in your bio, if you are lol
Sex with a woman
r/bisexualadultsYou’ll likely find someone if you keep trying long enough, depending on your area. I am a unicorn so have heard from the other side haha. Good luck!!
Thoughts on Smoke Detector?
You need new friends 😂 it’s near musical perfection
I feel invalid
I can relate to this. I’m very straight passing and don’t feel like I fit in queer spaces very well. Even on dating apps I swipe to like 1 in 100 women. I like really feminine looking women with no piercings, hair coloring, tattoos, etc
This part of smoke detector 🤩
Ohh I really like that comparison! The closest I had thought of was send for me, as an entire song hah
How was your first sexual same sex experience?
A threesome. The threesome overall was fun, putting on a show, living out my top fantasy, but I was incredibly indifferent to the same sex experience part. Wasn’t attracted. Wasn’t repulsed. It just, happened
This part of smoke detector 🤩
Love that part too - didn’t fit in the screenshot