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Overly-strict teacher learns to pick her battles by alexsangthat in MaliciousCompliance
[–]alexsangthat[S] [score hidden] 3 hours ago (0 children)
Thanks! Would you mind sharing where else you saw this posted?
AITA for leaving a repairman a bad review for flirting with my wife? by fenderscore in AmItheAsshole
[–]alexsangthat 32 points33 points34 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Well if he had worded it any different, it wouldn’t have attracted so much attention
AITA For not buying my daughter new glasses? by Substantial-Orange10 in AmItheAsshole
[–]alexsangthat 9 points10 points11 points 1 day ago* (0 children)
She’d probably purposefully buy the daughter ugly ones as a punishment, or just not replace them at all
YSK that if you have children, or even just someone who really loves you, you shouldn’t avoid being in pictures by alexsangthat in YouShouldKnow
[–]alexsangthat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Not swallowed at all, I’m reading every comment. I’m so so happy to know this post is helping people think of this before it’s too late, I never thought in a million years so many people would relate
Apparently there are even a crap ton of people who get super angry when told that your loved ones will be sad with no pictures of you
YSK That there is a Youtuber called "Dad, how do I?" that explains everyday things that might need a father-figure to help you with. His Dad walked out on him when he was 12, he makes maintenance vides for people with no Dad. by AlphaSyncz in YouShouldKnow
[–]alexsangthat 0 points1 point2 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Now he’s at 2.5 million!
[–]alexsangthat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 day ago* (0 children)
Yeah I don’t understand why people are getting so angry about this. I’m just trying to remind people how their loved ones will feel if they aren’t left with pictures. If you understand that and are okay with it, you’re well within your right to still choose not to take pictures—I didn’t make post this for you to feel guilty. I posted this for people who may not have thought of things that way and genuinely want to leave their loved ones with photos before it’s too late
[–]alexsangthat[S] 1 point2 points3 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Oh wow! Well I suggest posting what you can remember about it on r/TipOfMyTongue. They’re pretty sleuthy over there and can find even the most unknown and forgotten things!
[–]alexsangthat[S] 2 points3 points4 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Quick boys, they’re onto us!
Thanks for the giggle haha
I’m so sorry :( I also know that feeling, I had a voicemail from her from about a week before her death that I hadn’t listened to, and I saved it for months because I never could bring myself to do it. By the time I went to listen, the voicemail had already gotten automatically deleted. That one stung 😔
[–]alexsangthat[S] 22 points23 points24 points 1 day ago (0 children)
You absolutely need to do whatever is best for you and your mental health! Don’t feel guilty if you aren’t there yet, you’re trying and that’s all that matters. Good luck!
[–]alexsangthat[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 days ago (0 children)
I do the same thing for the same reason!
[–]alexsangthat[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 days ago (0 children)
This is such a great idea! When you can’t see the photos yourself, you can’t feel self-conscious of them. I have to imagine it feels so freeing, I actually may try this!
Thank you, you as well.
This is exactly our problem too. We have school photos, baby photos, but no photos of her as our mom. It’s hard to reconcile the two completely different images
Oh that’s terrible. Maybe some master editing expert can help you remove it??
And yes we did ask around but unfortunately she was quite the expert herself at avoiding all pictures
[–]alexsangthat[S] 7 points8 points9 points 2 days ago (0 children)
This made me smile because we did find SO many pictures of her legs haha, thank you for this
[–]alexsangthat[S] 3 points4 points5 points 2 days ago (0 children)
That’s awful! Do you think there’s any way you could send a message to someone at HBO to see if the footage still exists somewhere? Obviously I have no idea what I’m talking about but ugh that just sucks, I’m sorry :(
[–]alexsangthat[S] -6 points-5 points-4 points 2 days ago (0 children)
Yep I know the feeling! We actually had to use her license picture for the memorial card. I’m so sorry for your loss but even without the pictures, you WILL always remember her
[–]alexsangthat[S] 27 points28 points29 points 2 days ago (0 children)
I’m so sorry for your losses. You are doing your loved ones such a kindness by putting aside your feelings to ensure they are able to have pictures of you after you pass
[–]alexsangthat[S] 103 points104 points105 points 2 days ago (0 children)
I bet that picture is absolutely treasured, I’m so happy you have it
[–]alexsangthat[S] 1963 points1964 points1965 points 2 days ago (0 children)
Just think about how when you look at pictures of your loved ones, are you focusing on flaws, do you even see them? Or do you just see someone you love? It’s the same for your loved ones, I promise you!
[–]alexsangthat[S] 2737 points2738 points2739 points 2 days ago (0 children)
I feel it’s something people tend to not think of, even us growing up we just thought it was a funny quirk of hers, we didn’t consider that it meant having no pictures of her after she is gone. It’s never too late to start though so I’m happy you plan to!!
>:( by Dummythiccboi99 in Angryupvote
[–]alexsangthat 0 points1 point2 points 2 days ago (0 children)
Haha yeah I got that part I just meant the text about swords
AITA for not giving my brother and his wife any privacy? by scottaparty in AmItheAsshole
[–]alexsangthat 2 points3 points4 points 2 days ago (0 children)
So were they haha
....Or were they?
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