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How can I be okay with aging? by gh0stmoths in oldhagfashion

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to send a message here to thank everyone for all the input and reassurance <3. It’s really comforting to sort of hear first hand accounts that things are okay for people even past what society I guess says is the “end”. It’s a process, but I really appreciate all of this. Thank you everyone for your time, so much

My bunnies all squished into the one spot for some reason <3 by tinyeuropeanrobin in Rabbits

[–]gh0stmoths 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The spotted one towards the back looks so much like my Spica :’) They’re all so cute

Should you tell a friend when you’re really suicidal? by gh0stmoths in depression_help

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would, I guess I’m just worried that none of them would. I’m not as smart or creative or nice looking as any of the rest of them so I don’t really contribute much to any of them. But I guess I have to try to reach out. Thank you

Help finding a similar dress? (Info in comments) by [deleted] in oldhagfashion

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Hey everyone! I’m looking for a similar dress to this, I’ve checked my usual thrift stores a few times but I haven’t really found any luck yet surprisingly :( I’m wondering if anyone maybe has any links or knows where I might be able to find something similar? I’m mostly looking for the button detailing and muted floral colour palette and loose silhouette, obviously doesn’t have to be exactly the same but as close as possible would be lovely.

Thank you :)

Anyone else hate the purgatory we're in re. AF's future? by the-boxman in arcadefire

[–]gh0stmoths 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, my first time seeing them even as a long time fan was in November last year; I’d be so sad if that was the first and last time, they put on a phenomenal show

Type Me Tuesday- I’ve been really at a loss figuring it out by [deleted] in Kibbe

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Mentioned in a comment, about 5’4/5’5”

Type Me Tuesday- I’ve been really at a loss figuring it out by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]gh0stmoths 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it, haha! I think I was definitely hitting wrong answers when I was trying to type myself with quizzes because at one point I got DC and FN which didn’t seem right at all

Type Me Tuesday- I’ve been really at a loss figuring it out by [deleted] in Kibbe

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Thank you!! I’ll definitely look into some fg lines to try out for Spring/Summer!

Type Me Tuesday- I’ve been really at a loss figuring it out by [deleted] in Kibbe

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Forgot to add, I’m around 165cm/5’4”! I’ve been guessing one of the Gamine or Natural types but I’m genuinely not sure. Hair is pinned back and in a bun in first image

Creating a safety plan- What happens when you go to the hospital for mental health? by gh0stmoths in vancouver

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I wasn’t expecting to get so many responses here so while I can’t individually reply to everything, I just wanted to say I really really appreciate everyone’s input and help <3 All of the responses have been really helpful and knowing now what things sort of look like I think I feel safer with the idea of having a last resort safety option. Thank you everyone for your time!

Where can I watch hardcore/ punk shows? by willryn in vancouver

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Seconding Red Gate. Green Auto Music and 648Kingsway have things as well sometimes. The Invisible Orange but they’re often sold out, and sometimes The Wise Hall. They all post what’s going on on Instagram. Red Gate does usually have things on Sundays but the crowd isn’t usually as lively as a Friday or Saturday night obviously

A small personal analysis of Suburban War (And a bit about Scenes from the Suburbs) by gh0stmoths in arcadefire

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, I think that’s also something that’s interesting with The Suburbs album as a whole especially compared to Funeral. Funeral ending on In the Backseat feels like a tragedy with catharsis and it’s heart wrenching but there’s no choice but to move forward. The Suburbs feels like a tragedy where there’s no choice but to move forward but it’s so much quieter and so much more hesitant. It feels tinged with a bit of denial to me almost

A small personal analysis of Suburban War (And a bit about Scenes from the Suburbs) by gh0stmoths in arcadefire

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With Scenes from the Suburbs, something that really really stuck with me out of it was the ending shot. The way the car is driving away from the neighbourhood and is about to turn onto the main road, but stops right before feels really impactful. The way we never see it turn onto the main road and just have it cut to credits after lingering for a couple seconds feels like the best way that could have been done, in my opinion at least. I feel like if we had seen a shot of the car driving away, the impact wouldn’t have been as strong. The way it lingers feels like it ties back to those feelings of grief and struggling to fully move on. (Moving past the feeling vs “If I could have it back”)

Or maybe I’m completely overanalyzing or projecting a bunch haha

Can you befriend ghosts? by gh0stmoths in witchcraft

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you so much! I’ll keep all this in mind and dm if I have any questions :)

Can you befriend ghosts? by gh0stmoths in witchcraft

[–]gh0stmoths[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m definitely going to pick up a copy when I get paid haha